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With a divorce rate that is reported at 50% and even higher for first responders we would yell a very loud .
It takes a lot prep work from the six month point in a relationship until the engagement becomes official and we were dedicated to seeing if we were each other's forever person.
For me he was the most wonderful man in the world, but is that enough to build a future together which is exactly why we continued to date, to explore the opportunity of forever.
From time to time I ask Mike, when he knew I was his forever person, and unlike me he does not have a specific timeline of when he fell in love.
Grab your suitcases (not literal suitcases, just figuratively) and unpack them together over time through multiple conversations. It was time to see if we would be successful and compatible at building a life together or if irreconcilable differences would drive us apart.I also knew I was in love with him and I had fallen hard.Talk about past breakups, times of being cheated on or if it was you who cheated, what attracted you to this person and so on.Also talk about hard times in your life such as financial, job, and school malfunctions.
Find the commonalities and the areas that are unique.